How to prevent being an easy target for Kidnapping

Kidnappings happen in some parts of the world. Here are ways to keep yourself safe and avoid being an easy target:
* Avoid going out at night. If you must go out at night, always stick to well lit and populated areas. Avoid going to dark alleys  or any isolated place where kidnapping occurs the most.
* Be confident and look confident. If you look nervous you're more likely are going to be an easy target.
* Avoid wearing any flashy clothing that draws attention to yourself.
* Avoid carrying any valuables; like purse, backpack or jewellery.
* There is safety in numbers. In other words you'll feel more safer if you go with someone you know and trust.
* Always know where you are going. If you are lost pretend that you do because if you look lost you'll make yourself an easy target.
* Don't shut yourself off from the rest of the world. Always be aware of your surroundings. Don't daydream, look at your iphone, talk on the phone or do anything that makes you unaware of your surroundings. Kidnappers will think that you will be easy to sneak on.

If you read and follow all these points then you'll be safe.

How life would have been

Imagine if life was different. What if I wasn't born in this world? Khamael, Ghadeer and my parents wouldn't always be a happy family. Or maybe they would have a different brother or sister. What if I was a boy. Then I would have spent more time with my father and I wouldn't have gone to a ladies gathering. Or what if my family didn't know me and I wasn't part of their family? They would have treated me differently but they would still read this blog. I mean imagine I didn't know them and I am standing in line ordering food. I would still smile and say hi but I wouldn't talk to them very much unless absolutely necessary. What if I was born in a different family who were cruel to others? I would be a different person. I wouldn't be kind, bookish, studious and shy person that I am now. I would be raised to be a cruel and coldhearted person. Instead of being a shy and nerdy girl, I would be a mean girl who bullies others. Everyone would hate and fear me including my sisters and parents. What if I had been an only child? Khamael and Ghadeer wouldn't exist and I would be so lonely. I'm glad that I live with a good family and that I am a good person.